Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Back from Bahstan!

This was my first weekend away from my Sophie...Thank goodness she was in the capable and loving care of her daddy! (I think that they hardly had time to miss me!) Anyway, although the weather in Boston was rainy the entire time I was there, I still had such an enjoyable time with Danielle, my friend from high school, and her sister, Jessica. Jessica graciously let us stay with her and took us around to the sights of Beantown. The entire trip culminated in the reason we traveled to Boston in the first place...we went to our very first New Kids on the Block concert on Sunday night! It was truly a dream come true for us as we were never able to attend their concert back when we were 13 years old...now, 18 years later, our dream was fulfilled. Sigh. We had the absolute best time ever and will always remember acting like we were 13 all over again!

At JFK Presidential Library...

Getting blown away in my first Nor'easter Storm!

Sam Adams Brewery Tour...
Cheers Bar in Faneuil Hall Market...

Fall Colors of Boston...

All ready to go to the New Kids concert...

There they are!
My favorite, Joey, singing...
Dreams really do come true...
The round stage directly in front of our seats...
All in white...

Pouting because it's over...

Posing with our NKOTB souvenirs...

Thursday, September 25, 2008

Old School

This weekend, I'm embarking on a "pilgrimage" of sorts to Boston...going to hang out with my lifelong friend from high school, Danielle and her sis...can you guess who we're going to see in concert while we're there?! Jealous?!

Photos circa 1990! (That's why they are such poor quality...you can click on the pics to see a larger view of me in all of my awkward glory!)



My 13th Birthday Party!



Friends Forever - taken in 1995!



Senior Year Talent Show Performance Honoring Our Fav Boy Band!

1995...Danielle is in the middle & I'm the one on the far left in the totally awesome hat!

Monday, September 22, 2008

Now I know my ABCs...

Very rough video of Sophie singing her ABCs...Daddy Steve is accompanying our little songstress! This is the first part...as you know, 2 year olds get distracted easily!



Here's the conclusion to her ABC song...took about 4 takes to get it all in! This time around, she is distracted at the beginning, you can hear her pointing out the colors on the piano mat and then she decides to finish singing. Life at our house is seldom boring these days!

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Chuseok Holiday


Chuseok, the “Harvest Moon Festival,” is one of the three biggest holidays in Korea. It is celebrated on the fifteenth day of the eighth lunar month, which usually falls in September or October. This year's celebration is September 14th. Chuseok is a time for families to give thanks for the year’s harvest.

Traditionally, Chuseok is celebrated over a three-day period. Koreans celebrate this holiday in their hometowns. But first, they have to get to their hometowns. ... And getting there isn’t easy! With most of the country’s population traveling, traffic is incredible. Roads resemble parking lots as cars and buses creep along, bumper to bumper. A trip that usually takes two hours may take 10, 12, or more. Some destinations are accessible by train or plane, but tickets sell out within hours of going on sale.

Once weary travelers reach their hometowns, there’s work to be done. Family members spend the day before Chuseok preparing traditional foods for the feast. The most famous of these is songpyeon. To make this special rice cake, rice from the new harvest is ground into flour. It is then boiled and kneaded to make dough. The women (and often the children) in the family shape pieces of this dough in circles. They stuff it with such things as honey, sesame seeds, dried fruit, chestnuts, and bean paste, then fold the circles into half-moon shapes. Finally, they arrange the songpyeon on a bed of freshly-picked pine needles and steam.


On the morning of Chuseok, family members put on their best outfits – usually traditional hanbok – and honor their ancestors with a feast of foods from the new harvest. The feast includes rice, rice wine, and songpyeon, along with kimchi nuts, fruit, and fish.

Families often visit the tombs of their ancestors to pay tribute. First, they tend to the graves. They cut grass, pull weeds, and clean up the surrounding area. Then comes the final Chuseok ceremony. Family members perform a formal bow at the graves to express gratitude to their ancestors. They may also leave food offerings.

Once the ancestral ceremonies are over, families eat and celebrate together. Older family members often tell stories to the younger ones. Later in the day, families may play traditional games. The day often ends with a special dance known as “Gang-gang-su-lae.” This circle dance supposedly originated in the 16th century, when a Korean admiral stopped a Japanese invasion by ordering women to dress in military uniforms and dance in circles around fires in the evening. Japanese forces saw the dancers and were tricked into believing the area was well-defended.



Above article found on theholidayzone.com and photos found on Yahoo!Inside Korea.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Four.

Today marks four months for us on the waiting list for baby #2. If I remember correctly, it was about this time in waiting for Sophie's referral that I lost all sense of rationality and became rather obsessed with the process. I'm feeling a bit of that this time around...granted, it isn't quite as extreme, but I do have my moments! ;-)

We are finding peace in the fact that we most likely won't get our baby's referral until the beginning of next year. There's always that hopefulness that the floodgates of referrals will open up and SURPRISE, we'll get the referral before Christmas! But realistically, we're looking to at least January before #2 will be revealed to us AND that's fine.

The rough days come when there isn't much movement at all in the process for the other families along with us on their journey. I always take great comfort in seeing referrals trickle in and seeing the babies come home to their forever families. Unfortunately, that kind of news has been sparce lately on our adoption discussion boards and really, just any kind of news of the program moving forward, would be such a blessing for all kinds of reasons.

We are also having an "issue" with getting our pre-approval from the United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS). While it isn't imperative that we have our I-171H (the document that the government issues as pre-approving us to adopt a child from another country and bring into our home here in the US) right this second, it really would help to know that there aren't any hiccups with our paperwork and fingerprints. FYI, we got our pre-approval for Sophie within a month of submitting our fingerprints last time around. This time, we submitted our fingerprints back on June 30th and still haven't heard a word. Sigh. Our agency is looking into the matter, but we are fearful that our KC office has slowed down dramatically and that these types of delays will happen when we seek our actual approval after our referral. That could delay our travel to hold our baby. I know, that's all in the future and things could change...no use in dwelling on the "what ifs" right now. BUT, that's all I have to do right now.

International adoption is such a leap of faith and you really do just have to put everything in God's hands and rely on God's timing to get you through! Some days, that's easier to do than others. On those other days, I often turn to my friends, Ben and Jerry! Please pray for peace in the remaining waiting months.

Sophie, in the meantime is becoming such a fun little gal! Her newest and latest joy is in making songs up for just about anything. Last night, we caught her singing something about her macaroni that she was eating at dinner. She's also quite the little chatterbox - there's hardly a silent moment in our house as she wants to discuss even the everyday, mundane tasks. Oh, and everything also has a dance attached to it - like her "time for night-night milk" dance and "put on pajamas" dance. We are so very grateful to have her in our lives - we know that we are incredibly blessed and she really does help to keep our minds off the wait for our next family member.

We Are So Blessed

Another adoptive mom posted this on her blog recently and I think it sums up our experience perfectly! It's really worth the read...

We Are So Blessed
by Brenna Fay Rhodes
copyright 1997

We are so blessed. We have the opportunity to pray and wait and plan and hope and dream and work for our child. Circumstances don't allow us to take our child for granted ~ ever. We do all these things for so long and at such great emotional cost, that when our child is finally in our arms, we truly cherish every minute. Every second.

We are blessed to be in our child's life. We are blessed that God planned for us to be a family, and that we were given the opportunities that brought us together. We get to see all the best parts of mankind in our wonderful children. All the goodness and potential and innocence and ambition and confidence and love. And what a beautiful sight that is.

We are blessed to have run this race. It is long, and very often it is practically impossible to complete. But we run anyway, and believe in ourselves and our child enough to the do the impossible. We run, knowing that at the end of this great race, a child is waiting for a chance at a wonderful life. And we get to be the ones to give him that life. Wow.

We are blessed that when our child laughs, we are the ones to hear it. And when our child cries, we are the ones she looks for. When our child feels pain or joy or accomplishment or excitement, he shares it with us. We are needed and wanted. And we are blessed.

We are so blessed to have had the chance to see life from a different angle. To see that things don't always go as you planned them out in 5th grade ~ because there are better things in store. To be part of the few who feel constantly misunderstood. To be the one always on guard against the rude or ignorant comment. To feel the frustration of not having the perfect comeback to that comment until three hours later. Our kids can use those experiences and lessons we have learned. We are deeper, stronger, more compassionate people because of this journey. And the world our children live in is better, because we grow in those ways.

Our child is blessed. He is patted and hugged and nestled and rocked and kissed and squeezed and taught and tickled and corrected and praised. He is told he is precious in God's eyes. She is certain of her value in our eyes. And she never wonders if she will be cared for tomorrow or the next day. She sleeps comfortably at night, safe in our care.

We should tell our children we are proud. We saved and scrimped, prayed and begged, planned and schemed, worked and worried. We hoped endlessly for them. We dedicated years of our lives to finding them, followed God's path to them, waited in His time for them, then brought them home to their forever family. We gave our whole hearts to our child, even before we ever saw his precious face. Now that is love. And parents who adopt know all about that.

Monday, September 8, 2008

Take a Hike



This Saturday we were able to take advantage of the fall-like temperatures and went for a hike at a local nature sanctuary. Fortunately, we made it to the car just as the skies opened up and the rain poured the rest of the day! Sophie loved riding in the carrier on her daddy's back - she kept petting his head and saying, "I love you, daddy!" We saw many deer (they weren't even scared off by our Sophie yelling out at the top of her lungs, "Oh, hi deer!") and other animals including turkeys, a butterfly and of course, lots of squirrels. Sophie kept asking where the ducks and the kitty cats were, but overall, I think she was a happy gal! ;-) It felt really nice for all of us to get out and enjoy nature for a little bit.