Soapbox

I don't normally get all riled up about matters of the media (at least not publicly). However, a story this morning caught my attention and I thought I could use this recent protest to assert my opinion on the matter.

Apparently, in the soon-to-be released movie, Tropic Thunder, the "R-word" referring to those with mental disabilities is used at least 17 times in one scene, one section of dialogue. There are even being t-shirts printed with quotes using that word to promote the movie. I strongly agree with the disability rights organizations protesting this movie's opening. 17 times is more than a little excessive.

I have always had strong feelings regarding the use of the "R-word," but have recently noticed a surge in its usage just in everyday conversations, music and other entertainment outlets. I've also noticed more and more children using it liberally and nonchalantly...for that, I cringe.

In my experience, as the sister of an extraordinary man with Down Syndrome and as a past parent consultant/event planner for parents of children with disabilities, the "R-word" has very negative connotations. It is a derogatory label used by those who think they are being cute or funny, but let me assure you, it is extremely hurtful to a large community of individuals contributing amazing things to this world. As a child, I fervently defended my brother from childish taunts using that word and unfortunately, I feel as though I need to continue to advocate against its usage.

My rant is not one to discourage you from seeing the movie. See it. Draw your own conclusions. My main goal is to challenge you to ban the use of the "R-word" in your own household. My challenge is for you to raise your children to respect ALL people from ALL walks of life. My challenge is for you to come up with more intelligent ways of addressing others. At the very least, be mindful that some words, labels and "jokes" could be hurtful to others.

Thank you for allowing me to address this heated topic. I realize that I am mostly "preaching to the choir" however, it is a good reminder to all of us to lead others by our positive example. If you are interested in the article outlining the protest of the movie, click on this link:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20080811/film_nm/boycott_disability_dc